When to quit your job

When you are no longer giving your best, you are short changing yourself. Coming fresh from the new year, I’ve been facing more and more of such questions in Christian Counselling as: Should I change jobs? Should I stay longer? When do I leave a job? Read more »

Tired Stressed & Burntout for you don’t know what?

When it comes to assertion, people today have no problem standing up for their physical boundaries (especially during these days of social distancing). However, more and more people are coming for Christian Counselling to deal with issues that are connected to feeling down and angry, stressed and fatigued for no […] Read more »

Grieving for Change

Counselling, whether it is in the secular or Christian Counselling framework, is all about change. To be precise, it is about changing from within.  We do not wait for the holidays to come in order for us to rest and we don’t have to rely for that great relationship to […] Read more »

Should I Quit My Job?

This question has been popping up a lot these days. A lot of people are burnt out in their jobs, possibly because of the heavy work load or from the unnecessary stress brought about by their bosses.  As physical as these stressors are, these challenges are usually ignored by the […] Read more »

Abortion and Its Horrors

This article is not about the division between pro-life and pro-choice. I am not here to judge or condemn anyone or make fun of any group. Psychologically speaking, abortion destroys not only the child but also the people connected to it. That obviously includes the woman, the man, and family […] Read more »

How to Exit a Counselling Relationship

The Counselling Relationship is a working and personal relationship between you and your counsellor. It is a relationship built on respect, trust, cooperation, and motivation. These elements are necessary for growth and change to occur.  What happens then when I want to stop coming for counselling? Read more »

The Problem Within

In Solution Focused Therapy, we spend a whole load of time assessing the problem of the client. This is because every treatment plan, being unique for every case, depends wholly on the nature of the problem. As I tell counselling students, one can spend their careers dealing with suicidals but […] Read more »

When to Quit?

Quitters never win they say. It is not something we were raised to do. This virtue of determination, of not quitting, is proper when it comes to our studies, for that high school student who refuses to give up until she solves the maths problem.  For that 3 year old […] Read more »