The image above was taken from this animated film: Kpop Demon Hunters. As a dad of a seven-year-old, I was shocked about certain themes that casually popped up, knowing that they are subliminally influencing every viewers minds (not just the kids, although it would be especially salient to the kid’s […] Read more »
Boundaries in Relationships

In marriage counselling, I’ve encountered couples who’ve developed cumulative resentments over their partners without knowing the concrete reasons why (this usually leads to an awkward silence in couples therapy when specific examples are sought). They just suddenly feel like shutting the other party out and avoid them; only to feel […] Read more »
Counselling Length, Duration, and Frequency

A counselling relationship is expected to run for an average of 6 sessions.Each session is normally spaced in one-week intervals to give the client time and opportunity to apply what they have learned from the previous lesson. As meeting once a week may not be enough to facilitate real change […] Read more »
The Manger: A Christmas Reflection

Welcome and a Merry Christmas to all! In this video, I tried to unwrap a small insight on the symbolism of the Biblical manger where The Lord Jesus Christ hanged out as a baby. Many of you will suspect that this video was inspired from the Christmas sermons of Charles […] Read more »
Guard Your Heart! Christian Counselling Journal Reflections
One would be surprised that even in the humble profession of a Christian Counsellor or even as a Christian Psychologist, I still find myself entwined not just with political events but even with worldwide historical events. With all the hurricanes, the wars, rumors of wars, financial collapses and recessions, I […] Read more »
Why Counsellors Don’t Give Advice

We are mental health professionals but counsellors (whether Christian Counsellors or Secular Counsellors) are not consultants. Generally, counselling goals aim to facilitate long term changes on the person; whereas consultants aim to provide solutions for particular projects. Like if the client is troubled by anxiety, counselling and therapy will aim […] Read more »
The Brutality of Life
Life is BrutalCall this a sampling error but as a Christian Counsellor, I often feel that I have a front row seat to the things that I’m going to share. I cannot just spill things out impromptu because of privacy issues in counselling ethics but i can safely share that […] Read more »
Worshipping God Amidst Trials and Suffering

In Christian Counselling, it is not uncommon to encounter people, Christians, who are going through extremely tough times in their life. As such, counsellors and psychologists dealing with faith based issues are all too familiar with philosophical and existential queries that deal with human suffering. Such questions are thrown to […] Read more »
Why we don’t practice Hypnotherapy anymore

These are my additional notes for the video entitled: Hypnosis Meditations and Altered StatesHypnosis Meditations part 2 Both of these videos found below will address the issues of whether the practices of Hypnosis or Hypnotherapy are accepted/used in Christian Counselling. As usual, things are never black and white. We will […] Read more »
On Pornography Addiction: Video #6

The overall aim of this video is to bring greater respect for ones body and others. I believe that this revelation of the true worth of each person will contribute to dealing with the temptations that lead to pornography use.The human body is meant for the union of marriage and […] Read more »